Ive always been completely, obnoxiously Dominant. Thats just who I am. The idea of submitting to someone else is so foreign and alien to me, its like my entire fucking soul recoils from it. And assertive, obnoxious, dominant-type men turn me off. It used to be that just sexual dominance and assertiveness turned me off. But as time goes on, that has more or less bled over into other areas, as well