What really makes a session for me is the power i have. The main important 3 things to me is you to be Masochist, Subservient and Fetishistic BDSM is much more than just kinky sex, and it is not simply about “power exchange” or the act of whipping or otherwise tormenting a sub. For me, my professional BDSM sessions are about erotic energy exchange and service to another human being.